Dealbreakers aka Heartbreakers

This summer I have been trying to live a spiritual life, drinking less, partying less, dating less, and focusing on a better me. A little over two weeks ago a guy contacted me on dating site that I would normally pass on but I was feeling adventurous and decided to ask him out for a…

Fighting Phone Addiction And Missing Bumble

As you may know, I'm on my third week of a phone detox. Today was extra hard. I spent the day at home, with only house chores on my todo list. I found myself wondering how many people had sent me messages on KIK, FB messenger, Whatsapp, Snapchat, Instagram, but especially Bumble. Was I missing…

How To Choose Where To Go on Your First Date and With Who…

  We live in a time that everyone has a busy life, free time is very precious and to waste an evening with someone you can’t stand is criminal. Valuing your time is the best choice you can make. With the non-stop swiping, and constant switching message windows from person to person, it’s hard to…

Investing Your Time Wisely In Dating

How can we become smarter at who we chose to spend our evenings with and how can we make it worth our time? Being a Millennial and being single is not easy! Especially being newly divorced and playing catch up with the dynamics of dating again. There are countless apps for online dating.  They can become addicting…

Fuckboy 101: How to identify a fuckboy — The Fine Oyinbo

My first love was a fuckboy. If you know any psychology, you would see how this screwed my mind. I was naive and eager at that time. Apparently, he knew that and used it to his advantage. So he dished out his crap and I lapped it all up with hearts in my eyes. And […]…