Why Having A Wish List Is Not Always Right

As soon as I got divorced years ago I made a list. That's what all the blog posts said to do, that's what the books said to do, even the podcast peeps. Over the years that list has changed slightly. Most of the features on my list have been physical attributes or skills. Before I…

How Do You Coexist When Your Lover Is On The Opposite Side Of Your Values

In the age where social media has made us more left and right than ever before, we face a battle war zone in and outside the digital world. Ten years ago my husband had different views as me but it wasn't that apparent in our relationship. A person's social views have now become such a…

How Do You Know The Chemistry Is There?

What does it mean to have chemistry? Is chemistry when you meet someone and it feels like you’ve known them for so long? Does it means you constantly keep laughing and exchanging stories fluidly? Does it mean finding them attractive? What does your body look like when you have chemistry? How do you know that…