Should You Be Friends With Your Ex and If So, When?

So you break up. Either they broke your heart or you broke theirs. Either way, the relationship had become toxic and unhealthy. You were tired of things not changing, you felt trapped, and both of you were unhappy. Or maybe one lived a lie and pretend to be happy, creating a mirage of a happy…

Why Having A Wish List Is Not Always Right

As soon as I got divorced years ago I made a list. That's what all the blog posts said to do, that's what the books said to do, even the podcast peeps. Over the years that list has changed slightly. Most of the features on my list have been physical attributes or skills. Before I…

Remembering Dating in 2020 and What It Taught Me

In the last two years I haven't written as much. The lessons I've been learning have been slowly coming into fruitation. This 2020 year I have spent more time with myself than any other year and have finally healed. I think my identity finally transpired from cocoon into butterfly, it just took five years after…