So you break up. Either they broke your heart or you broke theirs. Either way, the relationship had become toxic and unhealthy. You were tired of things not changing, you felt trapped, and both of you were unhappy. Or maybe one lived a lie and pretend to be happy, creating a mirage of a happy…
Continue reading ➞ Should You Be Friends With Your Ex and If So, When?
As soon as I got divorced years ago I made a list. That's what all the blog posts said to do, that's what the books said to do, even the podcast peeps. Over the years that list has changed slightly. Most of the features on my list have been physical attributes or skills. Before I…
Continue reading ➞ Why Having A Wish List Is Not Always Right
Have you been with someone that you just keep discovering and liking more and more but at the same time you also discover things that you wish were different about how they handle the relationship? There are two components of a relationship: The Ego and The Space In-between two people There's you, there's them, and…
In the last two years I haven't written as much. The lessons I've been learning have been slowly coming into fruitation. This 2020 year I have spent more time with myself than any other year and have finally healed. I think my identity finally transpired from cocoon into butterfly, it just took five years after…
Continue reading ➞ Remembering Dating in 2020 and What It Taught Me
The mornings are the most painful. Every morning he would wake up first before us, walk into the living room and do his morning stretches, then he would come back into the bedroom and check on us to see if we were still sleeping. If so, he would go sit in his chair by the…
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