Why Having A Wish List Is Not Always Right

As soon as I got divorced years ago I made a list. That's what all the blog posts said to do, that's what the books said to do, even the podcast peeps. Over the years that list has changed slightly. Most of the features on my list have been physical attributes or skills. Before I…

Remembering Dating in 2020 and What It Taught Me

In the last two years I haven't written as much. The lessons I've been learning have been slowly coming into fruitation. This 2020 year I have spent more time with myself than any other year and have finally healed. I think my identity finally transpired from cocoon into butterfly, it just took five years after…

How Do You Coexist When Your Lover Is On The Opposite Side Of Your Values

In the age where social media has made us more left and right than ever before, we face a battle war zone in and outside the digital world. Ten years ago my husband had different views as me but it wasn't that apparent in our relationship. A person's social views have now become such a…