Investing Your Time Wisely In Dating

How can we become smarter at who we chose to spend our evenings with and how can we make it worth our time? Being a Millennial and being single is not easy! Especially being newly divorced and playing catch up with the dynamics of dating again. There are countless apps for online dating.  They can become addicting…

Dealing with hurtful words and stopping him

ATTENTION LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't let a man hurt you! You are worth more! I know it seems impossible because when we care  for a man, we value him, therefore you give value to their words. Well you need to learn to STOP giving value to harsh hurtful words that come out of anger and a bad…

Can You Have a Relationship with a Fuckboy?

Can you truly have a relationship with a fuckboy? I don't know. I ask myself this tonight, while I laid next to a man who I find very similar to myself in someways but who I also can't stand for how they feel about women. Have you ever met a man so charming, handsome, fun,…

Fuckboy 101: How to identify a fuckboy — The Fine Oyinbo

My first love was a fuckboy. If you know any psychology, you would see how this screwed my mind. I was naive and eager at that time. Apparently, he knew that and used it to his advantage. So he dished out his crap and I lapped it all up with hearts in my eyes. And […]…