SaltyMelons.com grew from the weekly battle of dealing with fuckboys. For those who aren’t familiar with what the term fuckboy means, don’t be discouraged, most likely this means you have been in a serious relationship or you are married and haven’t had to deal with the single men of today.
WHAT IS A FUCKBOY?
Well a fuckboy is any man (can be women) who is too coward to communicate with you after a night of passion aka hooking up. Normally they play all their cards right, act as if they will be remaining in the picture and make dreamy plans that dissolve into air. Poof it goes into a grave once you guys hook up. A fuckboy is super sweet, nice, even a gentleman, and then he sleeps with you and literally ghost on you. You might ask what is ghosting, well in today’s dating life that’s what you call a person (you were talking to or dating) that disappears on you. The text messages stop, the Snapchats stop, the Instagram shares stop, the Facebook messages stop, and pretty much any other “cool” social media spot you guys were communicating on.
We live in such a quick turnover dating life that we have forgotten how to get to know someone. We are constantly thinking there is someone better out there. It’s become more about the addiction with swipe with apps like Tinder and Bumble. The one thing we are strongly focusing on is physical appearances. IT’S ALL ABOUT that physical attraction (and maybe #? size). Today’s dates normally include drinks, and if you are lucky something delicious to enjoy together (I’m talking about a juicy meal), we quickly enjoy the night and feel like it’s a GREAT new beginning to something when in reality he’s probably thinking, when is this girl going to get drunk enough to make her panties come off (speaking from experience…real thoughts from an expert Fuckboy). There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have sex but there shouldn’t be manipulative tasks to doing an enjoyable act.
WE SHOULD ALL BE HONEST AND STOP BEING COWARDS! Speak your mind, your desires, and STOP ACTING LIKE YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE SERIOUS WHEN YOU REALLY JUST WANT TO FUCK!
This is where I want to share some talk about sex, dating in the 21st century, Fuckboy stories, and memes!